Is Cheating Your Wife’s Way Of Saying The Marriage Is Over?
There are lots of meanings attached to cheating when it comes to marriage. When a woman cheats her husband it does not signify the end of the marriage though. However, it is a sign, a serious one of some troubled waters hanging around your marriage.
Cheating is not an end to the marriage but it is a sure sign that your wife is emotionally ready to move on. This makes your job a little trickier when you want to save your marriage but not outright impossible really. The room for recovery is very well within reach still even when she’s building walls and putting off emotional access to you.
How then can you connect to your cheating wife?
1) Once again, woo her. Yes. You got it right. You need to go back to the very start and work on to win her once again. The good thing is that now, you know how to proceed from here on. But there are also some not so good things, actually there are two. The first one is that you may be a bit rusty already from lack of practice in wooing your wife. The other one is that you have some heavy set competition this time as from before.
2) Let her feel that she’s all the way appreciated. It is likely that she loves you still. Some period of time is needed for her to totally shut down all emotional access when it comes to you. The length of your marriage, in general, determines the period for her to close down her emotions. She really wants for you to experience happiness even when it is against her desires to be happy herself. Your goal in this situation is to convince her that she’s making you happy for all the major and minor needs you have in your life that no one meets or has met the way your wife does.
3) Let her see the man she fell in love with. This is all true. Your wife probably see you an experiment right from the very start. But it does not mean that she does not adore some of those very things she’s worked to ‘test’ right out from you. Let her see some of well known incorrigible and romantic soul. Be that man she fell in love with in the first place and you will see how hard it is for her to stay within the walls and altogether disconnecting from you.
4) Get her away from the other man for a little while. Take a week away, just the two of you. No matter how much of an expense it may be it’s not worth losing your marriage by not doing it. No kids, no work, just the two of you together. It might not be the most romantic outing you’ve ever gone on together but it needs to make attempts to be. You want to win her heart back and the only way that’s going to happen is if you get her away from him and use that time wisely.
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