Bring The Romance Back And Save The Relationship
If you can choose between a romantic relationship and a monotonous and lifeless one, which would you choose? Clearly you would choose romance. At the start of your marriage your days were filled with passion and fervor, thus filling your relationship with excitement and enthusiasm.
But through the years, that same passion may have weakened without you noticing it, because of the pressures that married life brings. The lack of romance can bring more strain into the marriage and you may find yourself now questioning what you can do to save the relationship and get back the love.
First off, take stock of what you relationship is like now. Have you held hands with your partner lately? When was the last time you really kissed? Do you still shower your spouse with caresses like you used to? Is sex still the same great experience that you share with each other? Or has it become methodical or worse non-existent?
Many marriages have deteriorated and some have ended in divorce simply because spouses have forgotten to make time for romance. And because both partners are not cognizant that sustaining the passion is one of most important factors to a successful marriage, they go on finding ways to save the relationship without considering this aspect.
Touching, caressing, holding. These are crucial elements for couples to reinforce their union. Oftentimes, couples make light of the physical aspect; when they have provided for the family, paid the bills and sent the kids to school, most couples feel that their obligation is done, forgetting that they have to allot time for themselves.
Enliven the romance and awaken the passion in your marriage to save the relationship and do it now before it is too late. As they say prevention is better than cure. Direct your efforts into determining ways to bring the spark back. Have fun with your spouse. Go on a date once a week without the kids. It doesn’t matter how old you are, there is always room for romance. You might be thinking that you are too old for these things. Well think again. Romance knows no age. Be innovative. Find ways to bring excitement into your lovemaking. You may even learn things that satisfy your partner that you never thought of before. And you and your spouse will experience that spark coming back again – that glow in your eye that show the delight that you both feel.
Have you tried giving your spouse a massage? Besides making your partner feel good, it gives you both an opportunity to link physically. This is a powerful way to recover the affection that may have been lost over time. Loosen up and laugh again with your spouse. Laughter can be an ice breaker and can be a great initial step in your bid to save the relationship from dullness and monotony.
You can device more ways to do to bring back the spark. And it will really be up to you. Bring back the romance and intimacy and watch your relationship get back to where it should be.
Zeny Zabala is a relationship resource person who loves to write articles about marriage and relationships for individuals looking for help and inspiration in their relationships. She also provides reading recommendations on her web site with reviews on the best available reading resources on the internet today. Visit her website now.
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