How To Pick Up A Girl When She’s With Friends

I want to bring to your attention to an obstacle almost every guy slogging through the single scene trenches is forced to deal with – whether they’re aware of it or not.

It’s rare to see attractive girls at bars by themselves. Usually, they come with friends in tow.

You may successfully approach the woman, but if you don’t know how to deal with her friends, they’ll snatch her away from you and whisk her off into the dark night, never to be seen again.

Here’s a simple way to infiltrate her social circle…

Ask her group of friends for their opinion on something.

If you do this right you’ll engage all of her friends in conversation and become part of her social circle. Here’s an example that comes from Neil Strauss

Ask the whole group, “Who lies more – men or women?”

Every one will put their two cents in.

Then ask, “Who do you think is more likely to cheat – married men or married women?”

Her male friend will averse, “Women.” Her girlfriends will disagree and say, “Men.”

This sparks a heated debate amongst the group. And guess what, my friend?

You become the leader amongst her friends. Hence, you can take the conversation in any direction you want.

You’ve infiltrated her social circle. If you hit on the girl, her friend will no longer care.

Another important point: your energy level needs to be slightly higher than the group. Otherwise, you’ll bring down their energy level and they’ll get bored silly.

Likewise, if your energy level is too high, you will freak them out.

Either way, they’ll ask you to leave.

Here’s your homework: Come up with five interesting questions you can ask groups of people. Think of them as your conversational gambits.

The next time you’re at a bar and spot a girl you’d like to meet, approach her social circle with one of these questions. I think you’ll be surprised how well it works.

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