Love Addiction – How It Can Ruin You
Love is patient, kind and understanding is what we usually hear and grow up with but is this true. Yes! It is true but when love turns you into someone you are not as you become too possessive, abusive, self-destructive and others then love becomes a condition that requires help.
Love is good when both people trust each other and accepts the person they love for who they are or what they are without question. However, there are certain love that turns into something bad when the relationship founded on mere fleeting emotion and not genuine intimacy, which most love addicts’ feels.
Love addicts often falls in-love easily and when they have love focused on a particular person, they become obsessive, as they fear being abandon. This fear of being left out by their partner is sometimes brought by childhood trauma, stress and past relationship wherein the addicts have been deserted once by someone they love.
Love addiction is not good because it allows the person to enter into a relationship based not on real love but mere intimacy or infatuation. The worst thing that someone when this problem can do is hurt the person they believe to be their love. This creates problem a never endless hurt for the other person.
If love addiction is not overcome sooner then it will bring nothing but destruction not just your life but the person you believe to be your love or if they are really your love then you can hurt the person you love the most because of your emotional problem. You will never have a healthy relationship unless you start getting help, sooner the better.
Los Olivos is a great place to consider if you are seeking to find a solution to your love addiction. The place is located in the Malaga region of Spain and it offers not just a peaceful sanctuary but treatment for your behavior problem. Experience and highly trained counselors, therapist and doctors run the place.
Getting help can make you understand what causes you to fear abandonment, as sometimes they are things in life that is too painful. That subconsciously you have buried it in the back of your mind or made yourself believe that you are fine even if you are not after what happen in the past that makes you afraid of really loving someone honestly.
Taking control of your love addiction by seeking help is the best thing you can do for your loves one and self.