How to deal with difficult mother?
I need to get a paper today, a friend told me recently.
Why do not you write one on women of our time that have to do with witch mothers? She only had a few hard-of-a-day spent with his mother, a woman is never easy to get along, but more difficult in recent years.
It was a joke, but I noticed an almost universal truth in what she said.
The reality is that we move into middle age of our parents and age, there can be friction between tolerance and mother before her daughters. And if the mother a handful of the treatment were early problems can exacerbate, rather than be easier than two years.
What are some factors that women are more irritable, witch, or to make a scandal?
If a C, the women are widowed, you can put the lives alone for the first time in his decadesand transition is not easy.
2 C your health have declined, or at least problematic. Even if it’s nothing serious, even fatal, on the ground, many areas of work not as good as before, and it can cause pain and pain in the front, without pain. It can be crossed with themselves, with God, their doctor or the world over these largeor all found in this state.
3 – It is well before his own mortality. If your husband died a few years ago and his health was, these factors are only memories of their own inevitable end. Although not a recent widow and still healthy and pain were his friends through illness or death, visited, and that is also a wake up call.
4 C and could have his license waived, either voluntarily or at the request of a family member or, failing the eye test or lose their license. And that can leave her feeling of inadequacy and dependentand not very happy about it.
Your Health 5 C, low vision, or delivery of your license can be traced to their ability, their favorite activities during leisure time. If you are not together, stay because of arthritis, is struggling with the crossword puzzle every day, because it can cause your view to their bridge club, or else the activities you can enjoy the bored and frustrated to be hindered.
6 C and can actively interested in a home or other facilityif nursing home, then assisted living is facilityperhaps placed against their will, or perhaps in a place where he was treated. Although it signed voluntarily to a place where great care, it is more independent, eat what you want when you want and enjoy the privacy, comfort and familiarity of home.
Why take out your frustrations on you? Perhaps for the same reasons that led her whims and moods of the mother, as they now are little childBut the roles changed. Now in power. (You may have to manage your money and / or you were the person is the loss of your privilege to drive and she knows it’s probably related to and coordinate their transfer to a kind of concentration over time.) You can power engaged and feels his authority. You’re also an easy target. S he wouldnt dare their friends to treat them, but as your daughter, you will be pleasing to a certain disorder can be in his part just there when you were a pouting, whining, crying or child was doing and was in contact with you, because you were a Baby.
You can also anger (at least in comparison) sound. Even if you have health problems, is that in a better state than it probably is.
You know the famous slogan: Act now. The time is limited? This is the situation now does not mean you have to endure all kinds of emotional and / or verbal. But they suggest that you do not give back.
Setting limits. Be firm. Have your website for you. But let him not, either. She needs you. And para elements you need your rest when you leave this Earth, you two were in a decent condition, while speaking, and assuming you live anywhere near each other, you always have to see regularly.
This is not to have to move from Cleveland to Tucson, because that is where he now lives. That is, if you live a distance from each other, use as regular attendance, as their professional and family responsibilities, and have their finances. And if you live close by, spend as much time realisticeven with her as if your teeth to do it grain.
That’s what my friend doesthe friend whose comment on his own witch mother was the impetus for this article. She says her friend Sylvia (not her real name) back Sylvia. But then he takes her to the movies or dinner anyway, because time is short, and my friend knows and knows that when his mother left, she did nothing wrong. I do not feel the same way?
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