Find Balance In Life
Do you feel like you are not fully you? Like you are holding yourself back, waiting for something to change about where you are and what you do? Are you overburdened by the day to day stuff that has extended into being your whole life? Is this how it is supposed to be, does it really feel like it? You know the answer is no, there is more but what is it? There is a balance between your duty to job, family, even life and what you really are meant for.
Do not let all that you are compelled to do every day override you as a person. This life, your life, this very moment is yours. It doesn’t belong to anyone else. When you feel overwhelmed, is it from what you feel other people’s expectations are of you? When you are fully engaged in yourself and doing what is right for you, the balance will come out. Do no put yourself second in life. You only have the very moment you are in to make it better. Do not wait until tomorrow to connect and see what you need, do not put yourself off. You and your happiness are the most important.
Everything about your contentment will spill outward, to your family, job and life. Bring yourself into the front of the equation. Do what you need in the moment you are in; otherwise, discontentment will follow and affect all around you. It may seem hard or impossible to put yourself first. How can it be done? Remember, it is your life. With that in mind allow a little escape to find balance for yourself. What do you need to feel more at peace and content on a day to day basis? Is it silence for a moment, a walk alone, saying no and doing something for yourself? Start small and grow into big, give yourself the gift of beginning.
You are not here to please everyone else; you are here to live the best life you can. So start doing it; it is okay to let go for a moment and realize you can do something for you. Open up and give yourself the time and space to find balance and what you need. Seek it out and reward yourself by doing it. Again, it will benefit all if you are happier but most of all the effect will be for you.