Proposals with a Difference
After dating and being in a relationship for a period of time, the next natural progression is to get engaged. Traditionally, men are usually the ones to drop to one knee and pop the question, but as society evolves, that is definitely changing. Regardless of who is doing the proposing, there is always an expectation that the big question should be asked in a sentimental, unique and sometimes grand way. But if you’re not inclined to be any of those things normally, how exactly do you go about creating a proposal that will be remembered years after?
Reminiscing
If you’ve decided that you’re ready to propose (and you’re fairly confident your partner will say yes!) there are a few things to do before popping the question. Firstly, think back to all the experiences you’ve had together as a couple. It might be a song, a place or even a nickname that holds sentimental value to you and your partner. Once you’ve figured out what that special “thing” is you can then build on it.
Start with a Song?
If you and your partner have a romantic song that signifies your relationship, this is a great starting point for creating a proposal to remember. Instead of just taking your partner out for dinner and playing the special song while you pop the question, think a little bigger. Consider going to a favourite live band that could possibly play that song for you. Before the big night, contact the band’s agent and discuss the possibility of playing your song and even customising the lyrics with your partners name in there somewhere. As another thoughtful touch, you could speak to the venue’s manager about getting a spotlight on you at a certain point in the song, stopping the music and proposing!
While this is just an example of what you could do with your proposal, it still should be completely unique to your situation. You can easily replicate this idea or use it as inspiration for other special moments you and your loved one have experienced.
Regardless of how you choose to propose, it will always be remembered as long as it is thoughtful, sincere and meaningful to you as a couple. If you can, always try to take a camera with you on the big day so you can capture the excitement and happiness your share at that very important moment.
Simon Middleton is part of the Diamond Exchange team who provide advice on buying engagement rings, how to choose diamonds and diamond rings.
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