Become Big Man on Campus
So do you want to know how to meet cool guys on different colleges, who can introduce you to other beautiful girls on their campus?
College…the place of young gorgeous girls finally away from home for the first time…without any constraint, but what if you don’t know anybody or go to their school?
I have moved, coming out of high school with no friends, to a college without knowing anybody, and then moving to a brand new city without knowing anybody.
Whatever kind of situation you’re in can be handled.
For this case, it is a social networking thing. Since you don’t go to their university and don’t know the people, here’s what I recommend you do.
The power of the internet these days make it a breeze to meet people, so search on social networking sites like Facebook or Myspace for people within those college networks you want to meet. Browse throughout those profiles for cool guys who might know a lot of girls, usually these are the frat guys. The thing about these kinds of guys is they are very aware of other people wanting to get associated with them because of their status, and are going to be on their guard and not going to add you, especially when you don’t have mutual friends at first. Just say something along the line you are going to transfer there next semester and want to be meet new people, and they seem cool.
Leisurely befriend them once they added you, otherwise you will trigger their “another leech wanting to ride with the big dogs” radar. Comment on their status or photo, show them you’re one cool dude. Find out if they’re having any house party and any event they’re attending . And go on their campuses one weekend and bring some girls if you can, or pick them up on campuses and go in together.
When you get in the party, your job is to find out who the frat brothers are, who will likely be the ones monitoring and working the party. Don’t focus too much on partying but instead on networking and meeting people. Chat up with the brothers and help them if you can.
Here in your situation since you’re trying to befriend the guys there, meet some girls as well but don’t think about getting them; pickup some girls and introduce them to the frat brothers.
That fear of picking up girls is still there somewhere even if they are in a fraternity. Help the guys meet some girls, and if you happen to be really good at pickup, impress them with that, and be willing to offer the girls over to them. You are at their party remember.
Play the host and make sure everybody is having a good time, and you will be seem like a brother too there to the girls, and just ask the girls how they are doing and if they want more alcohol. There is no easier way to go about than that.
When the party nears its end, don’t leave just yet. Hang around there with the brothers. Treat yourself like you’re part of the frat and help with the clean-up or any other assistance. This is the crucial time, so don’t slack off and get to know the brothers. Let them know you are a cool guy, and tell them how awesome party that was, and be sure to get their contact information.
Remember you have to offer value and bring something to the table to them, or else you will just be another value-craving drunk guy crashing their parties trying to get their girls.
Ask them when the next party is and you will going to bring some girls, become a regular to them.
These small connections will grow exponentially, but be sure to nourish them or they will wither, and you will be meeting hot girls or cool friends who could introduce you to hot girls.
Gabriel Angelo runs http://www.socialnatural.com, with the unique approach to dating and meeting women, by focusing on developing your “social skills” to be the most socially savvy person you can be, not just with women…but everybody. Although the arts are primarily related to dating and attracting women, they can be applied to other aspects of your life from social, dating, personal, and even professional.
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