Want to Get Your Ex Back? – Consider These Tips
Is there any way to get your ex back after a traumatic breakup? Everything is so raw and it seems like life can never be the same again. Getting over a broken relationship can take time and be very very hard, but if you’re still in love with your ex-partner it can make things so much worse. So does this split mean things can never go back to the way they were in those heady days of love and passion? In some cases no, you have to accept that the relationship is over. But in many other cases a relationship can be rescued and the love rekindled.
This article is going to look at my four top tips for rescuing that relationship and winning back the heart of the much loved partner.
My Four Tips to Win Back Your Ex
Tip Number One
Firstly, an important thing is to accept the breakup and take a look at the things that went wrong, however insignificant they may have seemed at the time. It is essential to do this because if you do win your ex back you certainly don’t want to be making the same mistakes again. Did you show her the respect she deserves? Did you really listen to her when she talked to or just stare out of the window? Did you tell her that you love her on a regular basis and mean it? If the relationship was based on constant conflict, what with the underlying reasons behind these arguments? Determining the cause of the breakup may be hard and will require much soul-searching, but if you want to get back with your partner it’s something you’ve got to do.
Tip Number Two
Do not harass your partner! Giving her space to sort out the issues spinning around in her head is a vital part of the process. It may seem impossible to do at the time but giving that space and time that she deserves is going to give you the best chance of winning her back. If you spend all your time in your partners face harassing her you’re certain to damage the relationship beyond repair. Trust me I’ve been there and done that and it does not work.
If you do see your ex when out and about treat them with decency and civility. Ask them how they are, be concerned but do not harass them. Leave them be, and respect their right to privacy.
Tip Number Three
Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Stop moping around. Although staying locked away in your house seems very appealing it’s not doing you any favours at all. Becoming a recluse will only cause you to become more bitter and self absorbed. Get out into the world, socialise and look and feel good doing it. It’s going to be hard at the start, but locking yourself away is not going to get your ex back. Try to change some of the things in your life that you still were negative. Projecting a positive image is more likely to encourage your ex to come back to you then portraying a negative one.
Tip Number 4
Patience is your friend. It is one of the most important attributes to help you get your ex back. Show patience, give them the space they need, respect their need for that space and privacy, and it will give you the best chance of winning back their love.
I hope these tips on getting your ex back have been useful to you. They really should be the centrepiece of your strategy, and if you fail to use them the chances of that reconciliation will fade. And don’t think that once you’ve completed these simple steps that the fight is over. It’s not. You will need to take additional action to prove to your ex that your relationship is worth rekindling.
Good luck and I hope it all works out for you.
Julian writes on relationships, health and home related issues. He has a site at 48 Bathroom Vanity which covers remodeling your bathroom and installing a Copper Vessel Sink
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