21 Fun Questions To Rescue You On A Date
Questions, questions and more questions! They are the most amazingly simple things that we can ask when we want to learn about someone else.
Dale Carnegie in his best selling ever book, “How to win friends and influence people” shares about the amazing power of asking interesting questions to show that we are interested in connecting with someone else.
Have you been to a party and been the one asking all the questions and doing all the listening? If you have, you will probably attest that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting. You probably did less that 20% of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!
If you’re a guy and ask a lady some great questions, you will often find yourself leap-frogging to last-base, saving a lot of time trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and really listening to what a person says is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do with anyone.
If you’re a lady and want to pamper a guy’s ego and make him feel good, then just ask lots of questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!
Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you are genuine, you will always win someone over quickly. They will feel your genuine interest and respond. Because the people who are genuinely interested in someone else and ask great questions are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.
Here’s 21 questions to ask to get conversation moving. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions – which are always better.
Here are 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl
1. If you are working as a waiter and one of your customers was rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or worst still spit in their soup?
2. What is you all time favourite movie and why?
3. If you could choose to have dinner with five people – real of fictional – who would you invite and why?
4. If you could become the invisible man, where would you go and what would you do when you got there?
5. If someone was to make a comedy movie about just one part of your life, which part would they script and what would be written?
6. What was your fondest television character when you were a young child? What was it that you liked about them?
7. What do you regret the most in your life?
8. What’s the most way-out experience you’ve had in your whole life?
9. Have you ever gone on a date with a person who is so way smaller or taller than you, and if so how did you get on kissing?
10. How old were you when you had your first proper date and did you kiss them?
11. What’s the worst lie you’ve ever told in your life? Where you caught out?
12. If you were suddenly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?
13. If you do not like someone do you show it or pretend that you like them?
14. Which do you prefer the most in a woman – intelligence, a good body or good looks?
Time to get a little more personal!
15. Have you ever had sex in a public place? If so were you seen?
16. What’s the difference between making love and having sex for you and which do you prefer?
17. If you could suddenly change the age you lost your virginity, would you?
18. What turns you on sexual the most and why?
19. Have you ever been unfaithful to your partner and did they find out? If so, what happened?
20. Has anyone ever caught you playing with yourself? If they did what did you do and who was it?
21. Have you ever serial sex – with one person and then been with a different person somewhere else within the same day?
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