How Can I Become More Confident
Many of us have areas in our lives where we aren’t as confident, but for a lot of others having low self-esteem can lead to being socially crippled and severely unhappy. Having low self-esteem will affect every part of your life so it’s extremely important to boost your self-esteem and start feeling better about yourself. This is not an impossible task and here are some steps on how you can begin building your self-esteem and become more confident in yourself.
1. Discover your talents and strengths
Now I don’t want to hear about how you don’t have any talents because everyone on this planet has talents. I want you to get out some paper and write down all your talents and strengths no matter how small. Write down everything you can think of and then I want you to go to your family and friends and ask them what they believe your talents and strengths are. Write down everything they say, no matter how goofy. Now, put this full list somewhere that you will see it every day.
2. Build on your talents and strengths
Building on your talents and strengths will greatly increase your self confidence. Maybe there are talents on your list you never realized you had. Build on these and work on making them even stronger because in time you will become an expert and people will come to you because of it.
3. Visualize
Spend time each day visualizing yourself being a very confident person. When you do this regularly, you are reprogramming your subconscious from the false beliefs it had before thus freeing yourself of the bonds of negative thinking. When you are no longer full of negative thoughts you will find that you are much happier and filled with confidence.
4. Find others with your same talents and strengths
If you are around people that you have nothing in common with, it can make you feel a bit uncomfortable. Now I know this is unavoidable at times, but when you purposely surround yourself with others that share your common interests you will start feeling more confident.
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