How To Handle The Feeling Of Liking Someone
There are times that people find it hard to fall for someone they thought as impossible to fall for. When it hits them however it lurks inside them like a virus taking their strength away and making them go from sad to happy and the cycle goes on.
Some find people in love as somewhat crazy but then again what is being crazy in love anyway? They cry, they laugh, and at times their reaction is in between. However it can’t be helped no matter what except if you believe that it’s all in the mind. For those with troubled hearts because of their growing affection towards someone here’s how to handle them.
1. Be a friend.
There is nothing wrong with liking someone. We may glance at them and do things that may catch their attention. However take note that not all persons are the same. There may be those who may handle this maturely, as they notice you, or may hurt you instead. Some people find being in a situation such as this troubling as they may find the person (you perhaps) annoying. There are guys who actually even take advantage of this situation thus ending in both lying to themselves and to the person who likes them.
Try befriending the, person you like. This will help a lot. But don’t overdo it. Act like everything is normal. Be a good friend and always try to give honest opinions to him or her.
2. Absence…
There are sayings about “absence” that makes the heart forget or is it making the heart grows fonder?
It depends which of the two connotations fit the cut. There are those who easily forget the feeling through not seeing and being far away from the person they believe to have fallen in love with. However there is also that great chance of longing that may make it worst.
Solution: Face it! That’s the best option. You just have to learn how to control your feelings.
3. Whichever you prefer
Interests can be a consideration for the person you like. It can’t be helped if we try to research and go for whatever it is that interests a person, and there is nothing wrong if we try to go for it too. However keep in mind that you are you as much as the person you like has his own identity. Be yourself. If you find it interesting whatever it is that he’s interested in then there is nothing wrong with it. But for you to go for it without an inch of enthusiasm then forget it. Stick to your likes. There may be points where both of you like the same stuff—and you just happen not to see it.
4. Get yourself growing.
They say that a person who is in love is actually graced with too much inspiration to be a better person. This is so true however there are those who seem to forget what they should do because of too much distraction. Liking someone should be the point where you see yourself glowing that you desperately need to share it.
Share the glow of how you feel by doing something good. Study harder, share your time with kids and make friends. Don’t always concentrate on the person you like. He or she is an inspiration not a reason for desperation.
5. Remember no matter what happens accept things as this is how it’s supposed to be.
We are not tackling about how to make the person of your interest like you. This is a matter of handling the way you’re feeling. There are those that seem troubled about it not wanting to get hurt in the process. Learn to accept that this is reality and that the best romantic movies and novels, even songs, are based on these.
Getting hurt is clearly a part of it but it doesn’t necessarily mean that it’s the end of the world. What you feel, if it’s meant to be felt is something that even your mind can’t control. The least it can do is to keep you focused on your life and priorities however once you felt it it’s simply undeniable.
Accept things as they are, this is according to background check of most people. Anything is possible. At times people find themselves surprised with the results: the person you like may be the one you’re looking for or maybe you’ll find someone more worth it!
It’s all about knowing what you want and remembering what is right…..
Search people find it hard at times and may go away, however they may end up finding things more difficult. Here are some ways to handle situations when getting attracted to someone.
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