In Your 40s and Still Single?
What? You’re in your 40s and you’re still single? What could possibly be wrong with you? Why haven’t you found someone? Are you impossible to live with? Can nobody stand your company? Are you a social outcast? The questions, the comments, the pressure from society and the pressure from yourself goes on and on.
But are you really different and strange?
Of course not. There are millions upon millions of people in every country and in every culture that remain single in their 40s and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with them or you. But the problem and solution lies within yourself.
As we make our journey through life we are influenced by many different people and many different experiences, some good and others not so. Some experiences and lessons learned teach us lessons that can empower us for the rest of our lives, yet other experiences and lessons leave enormous negative impressions that we could do without. The so-called ideal age to find our perfect spouse is one of those negative experiences and impressions.
So many of us become conditioned into thinking it is wrong to be single at a more mature age, to the extent that women in their 30s feel as if time is running out for them. People literally feel as though there is something wrong with them or their personality if they’re not married by the age of 40.
But this all comes from our conditioning in the early years of life, yet if we can simply recondition the way we think and change our mindset the situation and the way we feel changes very quickly. For example would you rather be miserable and married to the wrong person at 25 or be happy and single at 40? I can almost guarantee that most people would prefer to be happy and single at 40.
There are many different ways for you to change your mindset and of course working with a professional confidence coach or life coach can really help. They can lead you through several exercises and coaching sessions that can enable you to find the root of your negative mindset and replace it with a growing and confident view of your age and relationship status.
If you find inner peace with who you are and where you’re going in life and all these negative views and thoughts with regards to your age and relationship status can be banished for good from your everyday life.
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