3 Ways To Ask a Girl on a Date and Get Her To Say Yes
You like her and want to ask her out, but you don’t have any clue how to do it! It doesn’t matter whether you have known her for a long time or just met her, asking her out on a date can be nerve-wracking and hard to do.
The most important thing to remember is that you don’t want to be too pushy or too submissive. She doesn’t want an arrogant jerk to ask her out, but she also doesn’t want a guy with low self-confidence to approach her. She wants a guy that’s somewhere in the middle. He has confidence in himself but he doesn’t ‘know’ that she will say yes when he asks her out.
Here are 3 ways to use that confidence and ask her out:
1. Ask Her What Her Favorite Food Is
Don’t want a long conversation? Get her talking about her favorite food and why she likes it. She will probably have a story to go with her explanation. Listen to it carefully because the information she gives you will help you make her feel like you really listen to her later when you bring it up in conversation.
Once you know what her favorite food is ask her if she would like to go to a restaurant you know of that serves the best of the best of whatever her favorite food is. Tell her that you think she will be impressed by it! If she asks for the name, and you don’t have one, then tell her that you can’t remember the name and you are going to have to check with your friend or uncle or whomever because they will know the name.
And remember to use the story she gave you later in on during the date. She will be really impressed by you and you will be on your way to second date!
2. Use Information That You Get From a Conversation with Her
If you’ve known her for a while then you should know some of her favorite things, but if you don’t know here then start a conversation with her about things she likes or events that she has enjoyed. From that information pick a place or event that you think she would like to go and ask her if she would like to go there.
For instance, if she spends a lot of time talking about dogs then ask her if she wants to go for a walk in the dog park later. Or maybe there’s a dog show that you can go see. Get creative, but focus the date around something that she likes. Chances are she will say yes to that date.
3. Get to the Point – But Not The Usual Way
If you don’t have a lot of time to chit-chat with her and get to know her, then get to the point! Tell her that you are interested in her and you would like to go out with her.
The trick is to let her know why you are interested in her without making it look like you just like her body, hair, or booty. You want her to think that you’ve noticed something about her that goes a little deeper than those superficial things.
A lot of girls get picked up on their looks alone and it annoys them because the guy knows nothing about them. How can you really like someone if you know nothing about them?
So let her know that you liked the way she treated someone or that you like the intensity that she has towards whatever she is doing. Pick a quality that you find endearing and let her know you see it. She will love the fact that you find something about her cool and you took the time to notice it!
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