3 Things to Say on the First Date That Will Ruin Your Chances With a Woman
A first date is like a really long first impression. During the date she will be sizing you up and figuring out if you are a guy who fits into her idea of what a perfect man should be. While it may be true that she will weigh the good with the bad, there are a few things that you can say which will tip the scales hugely to her never wanting to see you again. Avoid saying these things at all costs.
1. I Date a lot of Women
If you are saying this to show her how wanted you are, then you may want to consider just showing her how great you are instead of telling her. Of course you may be just saying this in an innocent manner to show her that you haven’t found the right one yet but this just tells her something different.
She will probably hear one of three things. She will either hear that you are a player who will end up hurting her, and her defences will instantly go up, or she will hear that you are a loser who can’t keep a woman around and she will downgrade you to a guy who can’t keep a woman for whatever reason, and she probably won’t want to find out that reason. She may also hear that you are a guy who is way too picky and can’t settle on a girl who matches your criteria. This will cause her to not want to have to ‘live up’ to any expectations and she will not bother going on another date with you.
Bottom line: Don’t mention how much, or little, you date.
2. I Hate…
Women are looking for a guy who is going to make their life better and happier. They don’t want a negative guy who is complaining about everything. When you are constantly saying “I hate this!” or “I hate that!” then you are painting yourself in a very negative light and you can also set a very negative tone to the date. Instead of saying that you hate something trying saying how much you love something else.
Bottom line: Keep the tone of the date positive and paint yourself in a positive light.
3. I Disagree
It’s fine if you say this once in a while when you really have a different point of view on an issue, but if you are saying this to her when she is telling you what’s really important in her life or when she is talking passionately then you will pretty much ruin your chances with her.
No woman wants to be told that they are wrong when it comes to their beliefs, passions, or ideas. It makes her feel as though she is not good enough for you when you are constantly telling her that you don’t agree with her. And eventually she will decide that she would rather have a guy who doesn’t disagree with her personal point of view.
Bottom line: You don’t have to agree with everything she believes, but you don’t have to tell her that she’s wrong to believe it.
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