Relationship Advice For Men Who Want To Keep Their Girlfriends
Want to know the common mistakes that many men make to scare away their girlfriends, BEFORE YOU actually make the mistakes? It’s a good idea to know what could potentially ruin your relationship with your girlfriend so you don’t do those things to ruin the relationship. And certain mistakes are made by guys over and over again, which a lot of times results in their woman breaking up with them.
In fact, if you ask any single woman she will say that all her ex boyfriends didn’t understand at least 1 of the following 3 things (if not all 3) and that the fact that they just didn’t get it contributed to the break up.
Show Her That You Love Her Without Giving Her Anything
You don’t have to go overboard with this by sending her flowers everyday and showering her with constant love, but you do have to show her that you love her and care about her on a regular basis. In fact, giving her tons of gifts and helping her with all of her problems may not be the best way to show your love. Many women don’t view gifts as a sign of love, but rather a sign of knowing what she wants, or even sometimes trying to buy her off.
If you want to show her that you love her then tell her that you love her, look at her like you love, and treat her like you love her. Show her respect and compassion, listen to her when she wants to share something with you, and spend quality time with her which will make her feel as though your relationship is committed and in tact.
Hear Her!
I can’t say this enough to you! You have to listen to her, and by that I mean actually hearing the words that are coming out of her mouth and acknowledging them as well as her feelings behind them. It’s not as complicated as it may seem and it takes very little effort when you actually want to hear what she is saying.
Picture this: You start talking to your girlfriend and she slowly nods off into her own head. A blank stare and a nod of the head are all you ever get from her. That’s what many women feel about their boyfriends, and this bad listening is the reason many women break up with their boyfriends! A woman needs to be heard.
Don’t Be Super Honest!
Honesty is always the best way to go, unless you are going to offend her or make her feel horribly bad! In that case it’s better just to say nothing at all or tell her something that won’t offend her or make her feel bad.
A common example of this is “Do I look fat?” Don’t ever answer yes as that is not the answer she is looking for. She wants to hear that you love her body and appreciate it, not that you think it’s fat, and THAT’S exactly how you should respond. Tell her how beautiful she is to you and how great she looks every single day.
If you hurt a woman’s feelings too often she’s going to start to associate you with her low self-esteem. You are bringing her down and making her bad after all, so you will eventually get dumped by displaying this type of behaviour. Instead make her feel good and uplift her self-confidence.
There are also more intimate things that women need in order to feel secure and happy in their relationship. Your woman wants you to know how to please her in and out of bed! So learn how and your relationship will stay strong for years to come.
Bellaisa is the owner of Pleasure Her Tonight, a website with advice for men on dating, intimacy, and relationships.
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