Ways To Prevent Divorce
The noblest bond a lady and man can share is marriage. It is a relationship which is matched up in heaven and made on Earth. This relation indeed is the strongest relation in the world. In simpler words “Marriage is a relationship between a man and a woman taking a vow that they stay together till their death”. But today this definition is somewhat changing with the increasing number of divorces taking place. Today marriages are not seen to last for very long and there are a vast variety of reasons behind their failing, however the weirdest thing of all is that, usually these causes are so groundless and could be solved easily. The reasons may be the fast paced modern and busy world which don’t allow the couple to have time for themselves or it may be reasons like ego, inferiority complex or attitude problem and when you come to think of it these problems can be solved very easily with the marginal of efforts. Here I list to you the very simple but extremely useful things which if you instill in your lifestyle can help a great deal in building up the bond between the two of you:
1) Avoid bringing out unwanted issues which may lead to a quarrel: Everyone knows the exact reason behind a quarrel and it is often very easy to solve these quarrels, of course, when the ego is kept aside and a calm talk is made with the partner over the reason you are fighting. Getting upset or losing your temper quickly as well as disparaging will simply bring about more fights. So it is best to avoid talking on issues which may anger the other and talking with a cool head.
2) Listen to one another: Talking with one another bridges the gap between the two. The best way to express feelings, thoughts and emotions is conversing well. Because “our dear ones are the only one who care about our future”.
3) Cleanliness is another issue which should be paid attention to and good habits too do wonders.
4) Trust: Trust is the central aspect for your relationship to last forever. Over possessiveness leads to fights and drifts and that should be avoided, instead trust your partner, give good space and don’t avoid your past from your partner. Everybody has a past and you don’t have to be ashamed if you haven’t had a good one.
5) Always respect your partner’s thoughts, feelings and do give space a good space to your partner because this is an important factor for every relationship. It helps maintain a happy relationship getting strong.
So if you follow these basic rules and always look for solutions to problems and fights rather than being egoistic then your marriage is bound to be successful for a long time.
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