ArticleField.comInternet's Fastest Growing Free Content Article Directory

Finding True Love:

It is amazing how a person feels when they meet the person they truereligion damen know is their soul mate. Is love at first sight real? Of course it is, but love at first sight is not called “true love,” it is called “affection.” One definition of the word “true” is “solid without cracks.” When steel is forged it has many weak points until it has been folded and tempered. Tempering is a process where extreme heat and pressure causes molecules to build up layers of carbon that bind the metal to itself in a nearly unbreakable form. Love does not become true until it also is tempered.

Losing True Love:

After falling in love and establishing a commitment to the object of your affection you will realize that your love was merely affection. This happens when disagreements or misunderstandings or failed expectations and false assumptions pop up in places that shock you. Your first words in a situation like that are, “But I thought!”

It is easy for these realizations to quickly melt into hate. Commitment is not an emotion like hate or affection. Commitment is the meat of true love. Commitment is the fiber that holds together the affections and allows them to earn the title “true love.” The fact is that affections can come and go very quickly but the fibrous structure of commitment must be held onto tightly until the affections return. Those fibers are the only true love and they are easy to lose if you are blind to the fact that they must be tempered before they become true.

Surviving:
Many people are misguided when they think that true love will pull them through the hard times. The lie destroys many relationships between people who think that the pain and suffering is too great to stay committed to and therefore it was not true love. The reality is that no relationship has true love until after they allow themselves to die in the process of keeping the commitment they made. If you realize this truth then you will be able to look beyond the trials and focus on the prize that awaits you on the other side. Keep your eyes focused on the true love that you will eventually enjoy as a result of faithfulness. It will not soften the hateful emotions you truereligion herren suffer now, but it will make survival possible. If you allow yourself to open your eyes to the fact that your soul mate is also required to suffer the same tempering then you may be able to get over the “that’s not fair” emotions. As you both hang on with everything in you, you will begin to build trust in each other when you see that they have remained faithful. That is the point when the trials begin to soften.

Then the next trial will come and it will be hotter than the last. It is another opportunity to make your love more true.

And to find out more about health products that can cut your sugar cravings and help you find freedom from stress or pain, you can visit  where David Burns provides natural pain control alternatives for people who suffer arthritis, migraine headaches, sugar imbalances, joint injuries and a variety of other ailments. All profits from David’s personal sales go to support his ministry as a market place chaplain who ministers to the poor and needy.