Help your children to be the best they can be!
Children’s lives are influenced by their family and school environments. Their lives are one of learning and change and also of strong emotions. They are less able to express their emotions than adults. Let’s See how understand our children.
Every parent wants the best for their children but as they grow and change it can be hard to know the right approach to take in guiding them along the right path.
If children have a difficult family or school life, with little chance of leaving to go anywhere else and little objectivity to understand their situation, it can be very difficult for them to deal with their emotions.
Societies change and evolve very quickly nowadays particularly since the explosion of the internet and the global economy. This brings added pressures and complications for both parents and young people, who are often vulnerable to the influences of current trends and fashions and by the need for approval from their peers.
In what can be a ruthlessly competitive world, however, uppermost in the parent’s mind is likely to be ensuring that their child has the education, skills and qualifications that will equip them to survive and succeed in the working world.
The key to providing constructive and effective support to a young person is to understand their strengths and weaknesses, their talents and their personality.
So often parents push their children to work harder at school, having in mind some idea of the eventual career they hope the child will follow without understanding the child’s abilities, and then find them dealing with an uncooperative and moody youngster without knowing why.
However, there is a very effective tool that can be used for understanding your child and this is based on an analysis of their handwriting, also known as graphology.
Handwriting is integrated with a person’s subconscious mind and therefore can reveal all kinds of hidden aspects of their talents and personality that they are not aware of consciously.
A children handwriting analysis will give you information about the child’s level of confidence, their fears and apprehensions, their level of need for security and their level of self esteem. Graphology can help to understand and to gain an insight into what the child is experiencing.
It can show their hidden talents and potential for success, their intellect and thinking style and if there are undesirable traits or they have not being performing as well academically as the parent expected, the reasons for this and probable causes for failure.
Armed with a handwriting analysis report a parent will be in a good position to seek further help from an expert grapho therapist to work with their child to improve on those areas that may have been highlighted, by helping them to change their handwriting style during a course of therapy.
The grapho therapist will prepare a series of exercises to work on with the child, who can then practise the different strokes that have been identified to help correct any problems that have been revealed.
Helping the child to alter the way they write will begin the process of altering or making an impact on their subconscious mind. It requires some time and effort to make this impact, but it is a technique that has been proven to work.