Yes I Dumped Him But Now I Want My Ex Boyfriend Back!
Whoops! You dumped your boyfriend and suddenly realize that it was the biggest mistake you could have made. He may not have been perfect like prince charming, but he’s definitely a guy worth keeping around!
Reasons You May Have Dumped Him
There are many reasons that you may have dumped him:
You may have been lied to about his behavior by a friend– this is quite common, especially when your friend is jealous of your relationship with your boyfriend. I once had a so-called-friend do everything they could to break me and my boyfriend up, and then in a drunken night inform me that she would be dating my boyfriend if she wasn’t already in a relationship. That was when I learned the real reason behind her not like him! She actually wanted him!
You may have thought he was doing something that he wasn’t– It’s not hard to make up stuff in our head when we are stressed out or worried about something. We can quickly tell ourselves that our boyfriend is doing something wrong – even if we have no proof. This paranoia can lead to a breakup for no good reason! It’s only when our emotions die down that we realize what we have done.
You may have been scared of commitment – Men are not the only ones who get scared when a relationship starts to become more than just about dating. It can be scary to think about giving up our freedom and being with someone for the rest of our lives – scary enough that we may even dump our boyfriend because of it.
You may have been fearful of yourself doing something wrong in the relationship– There are many women who feel as though they are going to screw up the relationship in some way, and before that can happen they dump their boyfriend so they don’t get dumped themselves. This is common when past mistakes have not been forgiven and still play a big role in our lives.
Whatever Your Reason is There is Only One Way To Get Him Back
It doesn’t matter why you broke up with him, if you want him back then you are going to have to let him know that you still care about him and would like another shot with him.
You don’t have to rush into this. You can do it slowly by contacting him, meeting for coffee, becoming friends again, and building your relationship back up.
The key to this is patience. Do not expect to have your old relationship up and running the day after you meet your ex boyfriend again. He will have pain that he needs to deal with and you will have to earn his trust back – and that will always take some time.
About The Author:
Bellaisa is the owner of the Relationship Circle. She gives out relationship advice for men and women on everything from dating to breaking up.
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