Two people who love to forgive each other
I am a family woman, a lovely daughter, my husband two years ago was derailed, and since then we separated for almost two years, and there was little married life, I forgive him, but I still can not accept him.
We are the people who work, he graduated from university assigned here. I grew up very strict tutor, he was my only boyfriend, I am also a very good woman, in the unit each year, outstanding employees, at home what I do, even the daughter is also a person with large, he is also no matter what. I am a woman woman in the eyes of others, all the neighbors are very high on my evaluation. I also very beautiful, his hand, not so handsome, why cheating on me?
By chance I met a year ago, a family man. Had known him, he did not have a little goodwill, and treats him like an ordinary friend, but we mix much, he moved to my care to put me. A few months later, the day our relationship.
His wife three years ago derailed, and his best friend. He is a very capable man, but also very honest, us between 1 year and I have parted he said, he was very sad cry, and saw that he did, I did not leave him.
I really want to leave him, love him too tired, and very painful, he left here almost three months, we kept in touch. He has the time and I rarely say that he is very busy, too tired, I can understand. But at the same time he sent me the information, but also to his wife, and his wife are always in contact, why did he have to lie to me? I want to leave him, but I have no way to return to the previous love my husband, I thought about leaving this world, the daughter how to do.
Loyalty to each other is a very important principle in the marriage, but also the basis of mutual trust. Once the violation of the principle of loyalty, is bound to destroy the trust in the marriage, and bring harm to the party. Can quite understand your current mood, the derailment of the husband is bound to make you feel the pain and heartache, you will inevitably lose trust in him for some time, but chose to forgive, only to let the situation and mentality towards the both sides and beneficial to the direction of development of bilateral relations, there is no better way. Can do is try to get rid of negative emotions, good maintenance of each other’s feelings.
Fair to say that everyone has a confused, make mistakes (such as yourself), and sometimes make mistakes, not because of poor character, but then a noble man also exist instinct weakness, and sometimes these weaknesses would exceed the rationalcontrol, take hold mischief. This is not to absolve your husband, but to tell you that indeed there is such a situation, help you be more objective and comprehensive look at the person’s fault (so they will know how to forgive myself).
I want you derailed a large part of the reason is because the refuse to truly forgive your husband, unwilling to want her husband to the same injury, retaliation for his his fault. And it is unwilling to forgive, so can not let go, to give each other warm, we can not re-establish trust and return to the initial OK. That this farce is not it the end of it? The derailment has to make up ideas get even with his own subconscious, ready for their own re really accept him, is not it?
Now the end of this tangle of emotions, return to the past and the normal track of life. To sever contact with each other, we might tell each other not to contact you; at the same time and her husband, daughter exchanges together, arrange a family of three can participate in joint activities, makes you feel the warmth of the family, help you focus shifting back to their own families. And her husband on trust in the marriage re-established to discuss their common efforts.
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