What is Online Dating?
On account of the cold, damp conditions, the distinct lack of creature comforts, extremely limited space and non-optional insect flatmates, very few people actually decide to live under a rock in the literal sense. In the metaphorical sphere, however, there are many who live a blinkered existence, ignoring new developments in technology either because they don’t want to know or simply because things have a habit of passing them by. This phenomenon can also be referred to as ‘burying one’s head in the sand,’ a type of behaviour originating not with insects but with the far larger ostrich and although neither species has much of a need for online dating tips, their human counterparts clearly do whether it’s dating in Austin, New York or any other US city there’s going to be a local network of people who are actively looking for dates online.
If you are find yourself reading this and feel slightly insulted, then you must fit into this category. For whatever reason it is, you must not have been in the dating scene for a long while as any seasoned singleton should be familiar with the format by now; find a site you like, join up for free, pay the subscription if you like it and spend as much free time as you care to give searching the site for your perfect match. One can also deduce that readers who are unfamiliar with online dating are also not big fans of the internet, but that’s no trouble; laptops can be bought for around £300 which have extremely user-friendly interfaces and can connect to the web with one click. Find yourself a broadband provider (ask your mobile network) and you are away.
Once you’ve got started, there are often a huge range of features to be used. As well as an internal email system that allows users to exchange e-mails with one another, instant messaging is very popular too and provides you with a way to maintain real-time conversations with one user or multiple people simultaneously. Sites also allow you to look at photos of other members, and to click a button showing your approval that then comes to their attention. This is a form of online flirting, that can also be found in virtual gifts, ‘smileys’ and other formats that will get your desired person to notice you.
However, the easiest way to learn is to follow our advice and get stuck in. Ask friends or popular dating aggregators to recommend the best site and soon enough you’ll be hooked.