Men Dating Tips – How To Find Date
Common interest events: from concerts and festivals, to sporting events and tournaments, if you are both at an event because of a common interest, that’s an automatic in. Talk about the band you’re listening to, the film you watched or the match on TV. If she is just watching a sports game because she’s with a group, maybe explain why you love your team and see if she gains interest. If she’s rooting for the opposite team, engage in a friendly bet.
Mutual friends: maybe you don’t want to tell your friends that you are actively looking for a date, but they will know when you’re on the market. See if you can attend parties of mutual friends where you know there will be new people to meet. This is a good way to break out of your normal social circle and meet new people without totally busting out of your comfort zone.
Common-area places: when looking to find a date, don’t knock the convenience of your own neighborhood. Unless your area is filled with old people and babies, try to meet people at neighborhood hangouts like the local pub or bar. Even the public pool, grocers’ and video rental store are good places to strike up a conversation with a lovely stranger. Running groups are also great places to meet new people. In fact, anything athletic is a great way to break the ice, since you are already engaging in an activity that is easy to talk about. Once, I was biking on my way home and a guy challenged me to a race. We had fun and it was a great way to meet someone in a public environment.
Charity events: any type of fundraiser, from marathons to telethons and any other kind of charity event will have some lovely single ladies doing good. These events might be a bit pricy, but at least you will be looking your best to begin with. Take advantage of these events to be seen as a fulfilled and generous guy who supports his community.
My favorite way to find a date is to break out of my routine areas. I like to find new places to eat, drink, dance or explore, and the new faces that come with them are just a bonus for me. While it’s nice to stick to your comfort zone, sometimes you need to make yourself uncomfortable to find someone you’re interested in. If nothing else, you’ll have done something new, as opposed to stayed in the same pub as usual. So just remember: be friendly, and pay attention to her and you can meet anyone anywhere. And please, stay away from cheesy pick-up lines! A genuine introduction or compliment is much more worthwhile, and will net you way better results.
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