Simple Tips on Developing Charisma
Charisma is something that is hard to explain, but when you see one, you will immediately understand it. To explain in a layman term, charisma is not about being smart in getting what you want by using some trickery or manipulative means.
Simply put, Charisma is about “INFLUENCE” that exudes from your own unique personality. Charismatic people are able to inspire enthusiasm, interest, or affection in others by means of personal charm or influence. It is not about acting like a spoiled kid who wants to get his way all the time!
The question now is… How do you develop charisma? Or is it something that you can develop? The answer is YES! you can develop a charismatic trait in you but there isn’t a formula that you can just plug into and become charismatic the next morning. There are some mindset and attitude involved and it takes time to build them.
Here is a quick tip I just want to throw in here early, whatever you do, try your best to leave a lasting positive impression on other people. People would feel comfortable when you are around; and they would miss you when you are not around. This is the most basic trait of charismatic people.
And, here are more tips to help you develop some Charismastic Traits:
1. Listening – Being able to listen to others, and let them know that you are in fact interested in their thoughts and ideas will be very instrumental in winning them. When you show others that you are listening to every word, you show to them that you care. And when you care, this gives others the impression that you are someone they can trust.
2. Communication – Learn how to communicate well. Say what you mean and mean what you say! Silence is not Golden! However, simply uttering garbage is something you should avoid as well. If you don’t know or understand something, don’t just try to talk your way through as people can just see through it. If you don’t know it, just shut up and listen!
3. Empathy – In truth, listening, communicating, and empathy are skills that go hand in hand. You must be able to see things from other people perspectives and deliver a message in such a way that is likeable or agreeable to them. If you cannot empathize with others, if you cannot put yourself in their shoes, you will not be able to really comprehend what it is they want. If you do not know what they want, you cannot win them.
Besides developing the above skills, you will also need to build your personal habits within you or your personality. Remember that the charismatic personality can only be developed from inside. Change of habit is from insode out.
Always thin WIN/WIN! When you are dealing with day-to-day challenges or problems, always try to think WIN/WIN, when you do that, you are actually telling your mind to focus on a solution that will produce positive results.
Another personal trait of highly charismatic people are: Always seek to understand so that you will be understood. This is hard to believe because we all want to have our way, we tend to force our way down people throat. But, if you can seek to understand others first, you will become different and people will be more willing to open and accept your perspective.
OK, I have shared with you some great tips on how to become a charismatic individual. Hope you are going to put them into good use. Thank you for reading this article.
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