7 Signs Your Husband Is Having An Affair
So what are the signs your husband is having an affair? If you think your husband may be cheating, you will want to know the answer to that. Check out the tips below to see if your man fits the profile of a cheating husband.
1. Hiding The Phone
In the old days, it was a suspicious amount of ‘wrong numbers’ or callers who hung up when you answered the phone. Now we have cellphones, things are a little different.
One of the biggest signs your husband is having an affair is when a guy who used to leave his phone all around the house suddenly keeps it welded to his pocket. He’s not going to risk you seeing one of her texts before he has a chance to delete it.
2. Working Late
So well known we hardly have to mention it. Of course, some husbands really do work late, but they usually have the overtime payments to prove it. Does he call you from his cellphone to tell you when he will be home? Then he’s probably not really in the office, or he would use his office phone.
3. Bringing You Gifts
Is he bringing you gifts or being extra thoughtful and affectionate? That is one of the classic signs that your husband is having an affair. For example, a husband who has never bought you flowers before, suddenly comes home with a bouquet two weeks in a row. Be suspicious – he could be compensating for guilty feelings.
4. It’s All Your Fault
He may have brought you gifts in the beginning, but after the affair has continued for a while, things are likely to switch around. Are you having arguments over every little thing? Is he blaming you for everything that goes wrong? He cannot handle feeling guilty any more, so he is starting to look for reasons why the affair (and everything else) is your fault.
5. Looking Good
One of the greatest giveaway signs your husband is having an affair is that he starts to be a lot more concerned about his personal appearance. He’s suddenly on a diet, working out regularly, or using personal care items that he never bothered with before. He may even buy new clothes or change his hairstyle.
6. Unexplained Expenses
Having an affair costs money, and that money has to come from somewhere. If you get to see his credit card bills or have a shared bank account you will probably find that he is taking out more cash than he used to.
At the same time, it is clear that he is not spending that cash on you, your kids or your home. In fact, he is likely to complain about how much everything costs, because he wants that money for another purpose.
7. Mileage and Gas
Is the car doing more miles than you would expect, or using more gas? That is another of the signs your husband is having an affair. A cheating spouse will almost certainly be doing more driving than his regular commute. Unless he drives for a living, you can learn a lot by recording his mileage.
If you see his credit card statements, look at where he is buying gas. If it’s in a residential area that he has no reason to visit, you may have just found out where ‘she’ lives.
Sometimes, of course, you could be suspicious and you could be wrong. But if you check all of these signs your husband is having an affair, you may be close to knowing the truth.
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