The Merits Of Loving A Child Without Abusive
The Merits Of Loving A Child Without Abusive Control And Discipline
Loving a child without abusive control and discipline may seem difficult for many people but this concept can be actually done. Of course, loving a child without abusive control and discipline is not for every parent and definitely not for every child. There are few parents who can go about loving a child without abusive control and discipline, especially the last part. Abusive control may be taken out of the equation of bringing up a child but without discipline, this may be difficult.
Bringing Up Children
Children basically follow what they see. This is where the concept of loving a child without abusive control and discipline enters the equation. If the parents of the child and other adults that the child is exposed to are relatively good people and show the child good examples to follow, morally and socially, then there is a possibility of loving a child without abusive control and discipline. This is a very difficult thing to achieve since the act of disciplining a child is a show of how concerned people are for the child. Their concern has prompted them to try to make the child understand what is right and what is wrong.
Loving a child without abusive control and discipline requires that the parents be above reproach when it comes to their behavior as far as the child sees or hears them. Herein lies another difficult aspect of loving a child without abusive control and discipline, since the child is an entirely individual being different from his or her parents. No matter how good the parents may seem to the child, there are thoughts and aspects of the child which are not easily influenced by the parents.
Ringing up a child in sterile surroundings when it cones to examples of humanity, may result to loving a child without abusive control and discipline. This event happening may be a unique occurrence since there are many factors that can sway the child’s views of his or her parents. Parents just cannot keep their child in their home just to prevent outside influences from presenting themselves. Keeping the child away from normal events that children are supposed to be exposed to, may hinder the child’s development mentally as well as socially.
Loving a child without abusive control and discipline is indeed difficult to achieve but achieving something close to it is not. Abuse should be left out of the equation while discipline should be present init.
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