Building self – esteem : 3 simple steps
Think about it: how many times have you actually missed out on opportunities due to the lack of self-esteem? Do you remember turning into a sweating, fumbling mess at interviews, completely forget the answer to a very simple question and failed totally – even when you possibly knew that you were the right person for the job?
Do you ever remember stuttering your way through a conversation with a girl or guy whom you liked, and knew instantly that you had ruined any chances you might have at the start with them?
Building self-esteem is possibly one of the most important things that one can do towards achieving personal growth, as having rocket high self-confidence in this world helps to make everything else in life so much more fun and interesting!
To help you make sure that you will never miss out again on a great life-changing opportunity, here are some simple tips on how to build self-esteem.
1. Seek ONLY Your Own Council
A lot of times, building self-esteem actually starts with seeking your own Council within you when it comes to how much you value yourself. The reason behind this is that regardless of how much you work to develop your self-esteem, there will always be people or circumstances which will find all kinds of way to tear down your self-confidence. If you would think carefully about it, a lot of the most incredible people in this world are often also at the mercy of disapprovals by other people. Yet they are still able to push on ahead, as they always make it a point that they seek their own council before anybody else’s. The never succumb to circumstances nor do they hand over the power of validating themselves to other people.
NOTE: Just by starting to pay attention to how frequent you let opinions of other people chipping away at your self-confidence, you will find that it will empower you to stop this self-limiting pattern and improve your life for the better.
2. Have a Definite Purpose In Life
I cannot stress the importance on having a definite purpose in life. Having a definite purpose in life enables you to focus all your energy onto a single subject, which is very important towards building self-esteem which can survive in any kind of circumstances. This is because by having a definite purpose in life, it helps one to cultivate the trait of decisiveness, which is a sign of rocket high and rock solid self-confidence. Just take some time to think about all the people whom you know are insecure with their lives. I can bet you a few bucks that they are probably also indecisive as they do not know what they actually really want.
This may seem like a huge challenge at first, but I am sure you would be surprised at how effortless and easy finding your life purpose actually is once you start following the steps listed above.
NOTE: Keep a daily journal starting from today and jot down questions about your main definite purpose in life. You do not need to answer them at the start, just jot them down as the questions come along and write anything and everything that comes to your mind. This helps greatly in clarifying your thought processes and enable you to develop a keen sense of understanding of your definite purpose in life.
3. Change Your Inner Dialogue and Beliefs
The way that one talks to himself is actually a direct result of your self-confidence and self-esteem. Just as how can quickly destroy someone else’s confidence by the way they talk to them, they can also build their self-confidence up the in the same way. The same holds true when it comes to the way you engage yourself, except that it is much more intense and frequent as you are listening to yourself almost every single second. That is why just by changing your internal dialogue and believes through the use of positive affirmations, you will start building your self-esteem. The best and simplest way to develop positive affirmations is to ask yourself how you would talk to someone else if you want to skyrocket their self-confidence.
What you do next would be just simply jot down the answers and then make a commitment to read them out loud twice a day, once in the morning and once at night. For almost instant results, look yourself right in the eye in the mirror when you are doing it.you would be amazed at how difficult it is at the start if you don’t have that much self confidence yet.
Now, take these steps and put them into practice and before you know it you will find out that actually building self-esteem is actually not a very difficult task and it will help you to use the skills and talents which you have possessed for years much more easily. The most important thing is to take action now!
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How to build self-esteem to achieve better results in their lives
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