How To Get Back Together With My Ex Girlfriend part IV
Even if we live normal lives sometimes we get hit by this big ball of pain which comes in the form of a break-up. Even if you think it comes as a surprise, the question is whether or not you can you be sure. But breaking up is never good, you have to accept that something was wrong. Chances are you have been kidding yourself by ignoring a lot of things.
So what could it be.
First up, maybe you were a bad listener
There’s probably a large list of complaints you never bothered to look at. Often times you can make her happy just by showing you care about her thoughts. What kind of friend are you if all you care about is sex. This is how she thinks. Women start to complain early in the relationship, and it can grow tiresome to keep listening to her, but if you don’t you may lose her. So once you start to ignore her she will start feeling that you don’t care about her. At this point you are pretty much screwed, unless you start to tune in to what she is saying.
Second up, the art of identifying the real from the fake
Even though you should have done this a whole while ago, now is not too late. Do an analysis of your relationship. Take a note of every little thing you can think of. After all it’s your relationship. The sheet of paper might look like some arcane manuscript of dwindling history, but bear with it. Stop dwindling, what happened. Don’t fall in to the trap of the past. Instead figure out what you can do about it now and do it.
Final problem, impatience
Now is a very bad time to call her and explain things to her. If you do she will think you are very desperate and she will get even more angry at you. Give her some space, this is what she wants after all. Women have strange mood swings, and you might catch her at a bad time. If you do, excuse yourself and try another time.
Once all this is done set the stage for a date. Even after you meet, you shouldn’t start by explaining things. When you finally convince her, you probably won’t need to say a word. If not be patient and wait a few more dates.
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