If You Initiate the Dirty Talk Take Charge of It
If you want to learn how to talk dirty it’s an easy and natural thing to do. Many people already know how to use dirty words but you’ve found yourself here because you want to be able to do talking dirty to a guy without having your words come out cheesy.
You want to talk dirty to turn your partner on but you don’t want him or her to burst out laughing on the other end of the phone. That’s actually happened a few times and the results were a night of arguing instead of a night of passion.
Take time to think about what you want to say and how you’re feeling at the exact moment because it produces better results and more interesting conversation. Are you in a sexy mood? If so, go with that feeling and be a bit aggressive. Show your partner you’re running things when you initiate the dirty talking or dirty texting.
No one can really tell you what to say during dirty talking, they can make suggestions but you have to make it sound more like its coming from you. For example, how would you say to your man that you want to be licked? Think about how you normally communicate even in sexual situations then add the things you wish were included that your partners probably been afraid to approach you with trying. Tell him you’re going to play a game through dirty texting so he knows what to expect just don’t tell him when to expect it so that anticipation builds from the wait.
Your partner can use the wait time to think about their own sexual desires and how to say or dirty text them to you. After the first time it just gets easier but you have to make each time like the first by talking about different things.
A Dirty Talking Couples Challenge for Fun
The dirty talking challenge involves couples on their own private time separating themselves from their partners even if they’re both in the same home. The couples then use dirty texting as a way of communicating and the loser you guessed it is the one that gives in first and enters the bedroom or room the partner is in for more action.
The winner of the dirty talking challenge game actually wins in two ways. He or she gets to break their partner plus they get that sexual satisfaction once the game has ended. The loser of the game gets sexual satisfaction plus they have to everything their partner requests whether it’s shining shoes or wearing makeup for a whole week, that’s totally for the two of you to come up with.
This challenge has always been a fun thing to do for couples. One couple in Virginia reported that the game was awesome but the wife really hated losing because she had to cater to her man and his friends as if she were a maid dressed in a maid’s uniform for the whole week. That couple has two children ages five and seven so you can imagine the thoughts going through their heads seeing mommy in a maids uniform. Another couple in Chicago played the game and the husband lost so he had to end up dancing on the bedroom stripper pole for his wife, two of her closest friends, and his mother in-law. This game can get outrageous depending on what awaits the loser.
If you’ve ever wanted to get your partner to do something that they’ve absolutely refused you could try getting them to play the dirty talk challenge with you. When playing the game start texting the dirtiest messages you can come up with to win.
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How To Talk Dirty Blog site is for women who want to learn how to talk dirty to their husbands, boyfriends, or partners. We tackle women’s concerns about dirty talk, look at examples of dirty talk and dirty texts, dig down into what men really want on this topic, and recommend resources for further exploration. Our goals here at How to Talk Dirty are simple: to empower women to take charge of their relationships; build their confidence to be awesome in and out of the bedroom; and to make these issues discussable without judgment. It hasn’t been easy. But it’s totally worth it.
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