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The nineties of the Chinese society has entered the high-level, fast-paced, multi-color time, lifestyle changes, and love means also changing. Some young people mistakenly believe that changes in the nineties way love to have sex at every turn. Some young women said: “The General’s love is not complete. True love, should reflect the breadth and since love him, then I can give him anything.” “Love to be loved on those free, why wait until after the wedding. “” has already started the nineties, and lovingly boring, I go in front of history “and so on. In chasing trendy psychological domination, they quickly from love into love, rose from the edge to the core of sex sexual behavior. Great joy to hug, kiss, caress aroused strong impulse physiological instinct, reason had to make it difficult to resist. A survey found that 44.67% of women occurred within six months a number of sexual relations, of which 50.33% of people expressed their willingness, 80.33% of people think that this is a personal matter. According to our sex ethics, love of men and women during sexual intercourse, the most intimate form can only be kissing, cuddling, caressing, and only in the legal protection of marriage under the conditions, can only act of sexual intercourse. Arbitrary “fashion” is a lack of accountability of performance.

2, the concept of respect for all kinds of sexual freedom

In recent years, with the influx of Western culture and ideas of our culture sometimes spread, has a deep impact on the cultural heritage of traditional sexual morality. Some young people all the blind imitation of western concepts of freedom, to break through the so-called traditional sexual morality of self-awareness is very strong. Some young women said: “We are facing all directions awash, then sensible women will feel confused -” moral music box had a number of young people today do not believe in to appease the painful contradiction between soul and body, their own sexual attitudes and the original instinctive need the equal sign. Thus, some young women that “now that had matured, the desire to meet their physical needs.” Some said: “As long as their happy love on the line,” while others said: “What are they afraid of pregnancy, sex is not sin.” “Women do not make a return flow is not a complete woman.” In the survey, 32.67% of the women that “virginity is not very important,” 19.7% of intercourse did not matter, and said, “on the case,” and so on and so on. The concept of a change, behavior change accordingly, when their love is still do not know how to manage life rationally boat, they were burned desires scotched should not have taken place early sexual activity, there of a relationship with her boyfriend periodically, although some had a premonition that they can eventually married, but that special relationship is still as always. Distorted sexual attitudes so distorted the situation as out of control sexual behavior, and forged a “irresponsible consequences.”

3, meet the “sex” psychological curiosity and Quest

In today’s culture, environment, nature had gradually torn off the veil of concealment. For some young women who have not “talk of the pale,” ashamed, but to talk about sexual appetite like as easy, normal. However, emphasis on the sexual organs of many books, publications, sexual content presentation, psychological, sexual and moral education, poor, neutral aesthetic lens coupled with the increase in film and television, as well as road, street, hug the waist stand on another, or huging, kissing from time to time will reflect the phenomenon into the eye, this culture to adolescent sexual awareness and curiosity hazy, more depth and reality-based, from the comparative physiology of male sexual ignorance, gender alone is full of sweet with a sense of why, how sex is pregnant matter, etc., to have been satisfied with the development of books and video presented on the screen, street street, entertainment, witnessed the moonlight, but to go and try, Quest, so in love during the sometimes curious initiative not reject man made or proposed requirements. Survey showed that 64.3% of women of curiosity impulse had sex until pregnancy forced abortion, only regret.

4, the grateful admiration of her boyfriend on their own feelings of love

Although they also know the importance of women’s chastity, devotion should never be easy, but the feeling of love in admiration of her boyfriend continued agitation, they could not stick to defense. Some or because their boyfriend doubly attentive, in study and life to help themselves to a great, or because her boyfriend for their relatives to solve the many difficulties and made great sacrifices. I often feel restless heart, plus a matter of course but students reported appreciation. When her boyfriend proposed requirements, the fear will hurt his heart refused, then to meet her boyfriend’s sexual demands as grateful for his kindness in return, such cases accounted for 18.3% in the survey.

5, to eliminate from her boyfriend had to be assured of a sense of concern

Some women find their own mate conditions in line with her boyfriend, is the ideal of the “handsome,” love at first sight, it seems “this village do not shop” of feeling, in love during the performance of the initiative. However, for some men is concerned, the more active woman, but since he as too high, do not trust the woman and even a sense of worry, too cautious, ambiguous attitude. In order to express their own faith, and some women have rushed favors, and some man in order not to be abandoned, but also adopted this so-called “heart men to tie him,” “sexual locks feeling” not mature and wise The clumsy move.

6, the upgrade of love relationship

Many young women to “sex” as a measure of the size of love that only nature can only maintain the love, the development of love. Some believe that premarital sex is the love of procedural requirements, the only way premature to early to determine the relationships, love, upgrading, deepening, strengthening both cohesion. In this sex concept of domination, they too quickly gave their all.

7, to maintain the marriage relationship

A survey in Beijing showed that young men and women premarital sex, there are about 90.7% is a clear relationship between marriage, but for various reasons, such as free housing, economic hardship, not working together, less than the statutory minimum age for marriage, etc. delays in marriage. In order to maintain the marriage relationship, both sides often have sex.

8, about her boyfriend’s sexual function

Research indicates that such motivations are more common in older unmarried. They feel hard-mate, look forward to happy marriage, and thus cautious about marriage. They are willing to satisfaction with their lovers in sexual intercourse before marriage, to understand each other’s sexual function.

9, the resistance embedded environment resistance

This is love in the process of psychological development of the reverse effect. Young men and women in love, when after a bit of understanding to determine the next love relationship, always want to be in the surrounding environment, especially parents, relatives and friends for their support and praise. However, if the accident was a gross interference in interference of others, parents strongly opposed, blocking friends and relatives, are not to terminate a relationship, but more passionate, more closely to “What is done can not be undone,” the fait accompli to the resistance resistance embedded to promote love success.

10, for vanity

Today’s society, with the continuous tide of commodity economy, the impact of some young women vanity strong, resulting in severe mental comparisons and the pursuit of high consumption, the “love” standard tends to be “Lang fiscal female appearance,” some people in pursuit of a pleasure to discuss taking beautiful women at the expense of big spenders. As a result, some women in order to meet their own vanity, do not hesitate to return for physical property, and soon gave up his female “first”, and some in the temptation of money, “love” constantly shift, leading to “origin is unclear.” of pregnancy.

These are the psychological motivations of female premarital sex 10 errors, which reflects the young women in sexual awareness, sexual consciousness, sexual attitudes, love here so there is a big difference, one-sided, should lead to education, high society parties attention.