The Bliss of a Properly Planned Family
My husband and I got married in the year 2009. After three months of marriage, we got pregnant. After exactly forty one weeks, I gave birth to an adorable baby girl. We were so happy for the new addition to our little family. It was not until we felt the stress and pressures that come with having a child that we fought more frequently than normal. I felt alone when he goes out with his friends. I never felt this way when we do not have a baby yet. We also felt that the expense of caring for a child is not a joke. We needed to cut our budget to accommodate the increase in the cost of having a baby. The stress even pushed us to the edge of breaking up. Even the meddling in-laws added to the pressure.
Having a child is not an easy task so it is important to resort to family planning for the proper spacing of children. It does not only save the couple from the pressures of caring for their children but also gives the mother enough time to recuperate her health. We preferred taking birth control pills as our family planning method. There are different brands and types of over the counter pills that can be bought from drugstores. Among the brands that I have tried, I found Yaz lawsuit as the best brand that suits my body chemistry since I do not experience the side effects associated in taking the birth control pills.
Now that my baby is now becoming more of a toddler, we became used to the stress of taking care of her. Babies are blessings from God. The despair that the parents feel due to the stress and pressures brought about by the birth of a child is not because of the child but more on the failure of parents to prepare or plan for the arrival of the child. Bearing a child is a serious thing that can either break or make the relationship between the parents. It depends on how the parents deal with this important part of their married life.
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