How often do you make the move with a woman? Many men are not willing to make moves with women today. More and more males prefer to stay passive. Part of the reason is that women themselves have become more direct, especially in our societies. The curtains have finally fallen. More and more women are admitting what they want and so many of them don’t want to hide it anymore. Men are becoming more passive as a result. You not only have less men approaching women, but you have less men that are willing to escalate with women in any way.